Understanding some basics of life and being willing to set aside some comfortable believes opens the door to personal growth.

• You are responsible for your life.
• You are free to do whatever you want, but you must bear the consequences.
• Your values, priorities and actions must align for you to feel fulfilled.
• Nobody owes you anything, especially not your partner, your family or your friends.
• You are at the point in your life that you deserve. Believing you deserve more is a fantasy, you have to put in the work.
• There is a time for planning and reflection, but the only way forward is through action.
• Focus on the things you can control; leave the things you can´t.

Don´t search for the exception to those basics, use them to your personal advantage.